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A Message to Those Who Hate

​It is not ok to hate. You should have learned this simple concept by the age of five (at the least), but apparently it bares repeating. It feels like there is more hate in the world these past few years. People who have hatred towards other groups of people, feel more empowered to be more vocal about it.

For those who hate, I ask you to soften your heart. When the thoughts of anger and hate creep in, soften your heart. Listen to what your child self would say. You, as a child did not hate others. You learned this behavior, but as an adult you should know better. You know it is wrong, but yet you do it anyway. What is happening within you that makes you want to hate? How is your anger helping you?

Often when we hate something about someone else it is because we hate that about ourselves. So what is it you don't like about yourself and how is it serving you to take it out on others? The race, religion, culture, group that you hate is not your scapegoat. Stop being a coward and deflecting your anger unto innocent people you choose as your scapegoat and face your own crap with bravery.

Ultimately, your hate is cowardice. Either grow up or go back to being the sweet child with a pure soul that you once were. The sweet child that did not hate.

The darkness of hate overshadows the peace that is waiting for you. Let go.

Lisa
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A Message to Pre-Teen/Teen Girls and Boys

A Message to Pre-Teen/Teen Girls and Boys
You are in a stage of your life that can be wonderful, but also scary. There are so many changes happening. You are growing and evolving and learning about life. Often times at this stage there are feelings of insecurity; doubt; not feeling good enough; longing to be liked and loved and popular. You are living most of your life in a social school e...
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When You Are Afraid to Follow Your Dreams

When You Are Afraid to Follow Your Dreams
As I am working on a new adventure fear keeps bringing me to the point of wanting to quit. I mean paralyzing fear, sometimes terror, and thoughts of "what on earth am I thinking…I can't do this…people will think I'm crazy". I then realized that I have two choices; I can either try and fail or succeed, or not try at all. It is much worse to not try ...
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No Matter What, We Are Not Divided

It is ok to think differently than another. We cannot all be the same, or think the same. However, we do not have to choose to fight against one another. We do not have to be angry because someone else thinks differently, looks differently, or lives differently. You can be a Democrat and still treat a republican with respect, and vice versa.We sill...
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What If Men Menstruated?

What If Men Menstruated?
I'm not sure why my odd (yet brilliant) brain decided to even think about this in the first place. I think it stemmed from the fact that things are not very fair when looking at annoying things we have to deal with in life due to our sex. I mean, think about it. Women have to grow breasts, menstruate on a monthly basis, be pregnant for 10 months (I...
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Why You Should Love Your Beautiful Self

Why You Should Love Your Beautiful Self
I don't believe we were put on this earth to be miserable. I believe we are here to learn, grow, and find the path to experience joy. However, we often end up on a path that can be self-destructive, negative, and harmful to ourselves in one way or another. I think the key that opens the door to everything you want and puts you on the path you are m...
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Animals Attack! My First Summer (OF HORROR) Living up North

Animals Attack! 
My First Summer  (OF HORROR) Living up North
Was it a sign from Mother Nature that I was not meant to live in northern Minnesota? I sure thought so! I grew up on a hog farm in between Faribault and Northfield. So I was surrounded by fields, with some patches of trees here and there. I loved growing up on a farm in southern Minnesota and after my first summer living up north I was ready to hea...
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Before You Judge, Here's the Thing About Prince's Death

Before you go around making an assumption that Prince was a drug addict, allow me to enlighten you about the growing problem of narcotic medications being used to treat chronic illness. First of all, I (nor you), do not know the facts surrounding his death, but it would seem that he passed away from an overdose of subscription opioid pain medicatio...
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Lisa Karen
Thank you!
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Well said!!
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Hey, Guess What? You are God, Kinda.

Hey, Guess What? You are God, Kinda.
How's that for a topic! You may be wondering what on earth I am talking about. Well put your seatbelt on, we are going for a ride! What I'm about to share is probably not something you have thought of or heard before, but bear with me and keep an open mind. And no, I promise you, I have not gone wacky crackers. Every human being is energy and ...
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Poor Grades in School a Sign of Intelligence

Poor Grades in School a Sign of Intelligence
How is it possible that poor grades could occur with a student that is highly intelligent? This scenario applies to many prominent people throughout history: Thomas Edison, Albert Einstein, Henry Ford, Alexander Graham Bell, Leonardo DaVinci, Pablo Picasso, Steven Spielberg, Richard Branson, Ted Turner, Charles Schwab, and Whoopi Goldberg, just to ...
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The Near Extinction of the Farming Fathers

The Near Extinction of the Farming Fathers
This is one of my articles that was in the Star Tribune. I wrote it specifically to honor my Father and am grateful I was able to share it with him before he passed. There was a time when rural country areas were inhabited by family farms. Really, a unique sub-culture that personifies true human nature and the American way. That time seems to ...
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An Optimists Pessimistic View of Over-Commercialized Holidays

An Optimists Pessimistic View of Over-Commercialized Holidays
Oh joy, another holiday is upon us!I know I'm suppose to be focusing on the meaning of Easter or whatever holiday it may be, but I'm to busy boiling eggs, painting eggs, buying plastic eggs and candy, stuffing plastic eggs with candy, eating some of the candy I'm stuffing in the eggs, planning an easter menu, clipping coupons, buying groceries, coo...
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Winner Winner Chicken Dinner!

Thanks to all that subscribed and joined the prize give away! I will be contacting each winner individually by tomorrow night, but in the meantime, here are the winners:
scarf: Marni P
scarf: Amanda W
Wallet: Mary G
Brown knit hat: Sally K
tan hat: Jenny S
Wine Bag: Shauna L
Subway gift card: Cari B
Book: Lynn D
Straw Hat: Vicky H
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School Lunches...Where's the Nutrition?

School Lunches...Where's the Nutrition?
So, let me get this straight, studies indicate that when children are eating healthy foods they do better academically, are more alert, and have more energy throughout the day. If this is the case then why do the schools give children unhealthy food choices on a daily basis? This seems contradictory. When I worked as a school nurse I would often be...
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Having Kids Messes You Up!

Having Kids Messes You Up!
I can vaguely recall a time when I could sneeze without wetting myself. That was before I had children. All you hear about is how wonderful having children is. Oh sure, that is true, but somehow people forget to tell you about the after effects, such as incontinence, saggy breasts, hemorrhoids, stretch marks, fatness, larger feet, weird varicose ve...
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A Childs Life on the Farm

A Childs Life on the Farm
There are many dangers of growing up on a farm. Not scary dangers, mind you; fun dangers. The kind of dangers that nearly kill you, but you have more fun nearly getting killed than playing with dolls, riding bikes, and non-lethal boring things the city folk do. For instance, the time we climbed into the corn bin to jump in the corn and my brother M...
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You Matter

You Matter
How is it possible that you do not know just how much you matter in this world. If you didn't, you would not exist. Everyone matters. There is a reason why you are here. You have a purpose. It does not have to be anything grandiose. You do not have to be famous or wealthy. You do not have to win awards, heal the sick, or rule the world.Your purpose...
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What I Want Everyone to Know

What I Want Everyone to Know
This is a couple paragraphs from my next book. It is kind of deep. :) You are not the you that you think you are. You are a conscious awareness observing your life. You are a soul. You are the spirit behind the brain shaping what it is you think about. You are a witness to the life you live. You observe without judgement, and love uncondi...
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Cloquet Craft Sale Prize Winners

The winners of the Subway gift cards prize giveaway are Zach H. and Jeanie G.. I will be emailing you separately as well.
Congratulations!!
I enjoy giving, and will be doing random prize giveaways for my loyal subscribers in the future! Stay tuned!
Lisa
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PRIZE WINNERS!

Thank you to everyone that signed up for prizes at the Sawmill craft sale! The winners were Peg C., Heidi B., and Lydia T. I will be contacting the winners separately.
I love to give things away and will be having other contests in the future. Stay tuned, email subscribers will receive notice whenever there are prize giveaways!
Lisa
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